My wife loves Ellen Degeneres.  She DVR’s the show and watches it after work.  Ellen had Will Smith on her show sometime this week and he said something that made me have much more respect for him (not that I didn’t before) and it was profoundly true.

He was talking about how he’s trying to get his kids reading as often as possible by telling them that everything has been written.  There is no new problem that you will face that someone else hasn’t already experienced and written about.  Basically he was saying to go read a damn book (my words not his) when you can’t figure something out.

I am an avid reader and often find myself frustrated by the fact that we live in a force fed generation of bad TV watchers.  Why do I care?

Because no one is held accountable for the mindless dribble that is rotting the brains of lazy Americans.  Not the news, or the press, or the major media companies.  What possible life lessons do you learn from the cut reels of American Idol?  Not to be stupid in front of a camera?  You should know that already!

I fear most because I have children.  They are young and impressionable and I don’t see enough role models for them.  No longer do we hold the morally good on a pedestal.  Instead we watch them from below waiting, nay hoping, for them to fall.  Then we reward the talentless or the disgustingly shameful to be famous for fifteen minutes at a time.  Why?

I don’t want my children to look up to Paris Hilton.  I don’t want them to play with Bratz.

As a parent I will do my absolute best to teach them culture, art, and self worth.  Unfortunately I think they will be the only ones in their schools with morals, standards, and a basic knowledge of what’s right and wrong.

Who’s fault is all of this?  It’s the lazy parents.  I see them everywhere.  Instead of disciplining their children they allow their children to walk all over them.  Do these clueless parents really think it will get easier further down the road?  It’s no wonder television shows like Nanny911 are a Godsend to these people.  All they had to do was read a damn book and practice some discipline.  Discipline on their children and on themselves.

Sheesh, and I was just going to write a little about the book I was reading.

Since moving back to Midland, TX about 7 months ago I’ve become increasingly concerned about the well being behind the people that run this city.  What the heck are they smoking?

Here’s the simple breakdown of what’s wrong with this town.  This won’t even include the lack of arts and culture (I’ll touch on that in a later post I’m sure).

There are two many jobs in this town and not enough people.

There are two many people in this town and not enough housing.

So all we need to do as a city is increase the housing situation right?  Well, according to city council that’s what we’re trying to do.

Or is it?

Council again delays decision on apartments! Are you kidding?

Developers said they may choose not to continue with the proposed 209-unit Blue Ridge Apartments.

This comes after the City Council, in a 4-2 vote, chose to defer the project — a move that goes against the grain of the council’s priority for more housing.”

All of this means that the development of the city will stay at a stand still for an even longer amount of time.  I understand that they want to wait for a full council after the vote, but come on.  Does anyone actually think any new council members are going to oppose the increase in housing that will ultimately help this city be a better place to live?

The lack of housing in this community is the number one reason why we are having so many problems here.  For example:  With not enough housing we don’t have enough workers.  That problem plagues the everyday consumer as we hit stores and are greeted by overworked and understaffed resaurants, grocery stores, and just about everywhere else you spend your hard earned money.

Is there any wonder why customer service has become increasingly atrocious in this town.  The workers don’t care.  They don’t care about their jobs because they can walk next door to whatever building is there and ask for a job.  Chances are that they will get to start working the next day because the employers are starving for workers.  See the problem?  Sheesh!

So come on Midland City Council do what you know is right and fix it.  Get us more housing!

I know of one place that has vacancies anyway.

apartment sign

 

in lines we trust

The question really refers to this blog, not to me.  I know what I’m doing on planet earth, but what am I doing with this blog?  I can see that if I don’t really focus on something solid it will just become a mish mash of random stuff.

I could of course blog about photography, but I already do that elsewhere. 

Let’s look back a little and see what’s shaking.

I live in Midland, TX now.  Sometimes it’s still hard to say out loud. 

I think I have too much pride.  Maybe it’s ego.

I grew up here and swore I would never live here again.  I mean, what does this town have to offer me?  Actually, I could really do well in this town if I had intentions of doing so.  I just don’t have that desire.  It’s this whole crossroads thing. 

When Heather and I moved here, we thought it could possibly become a permanent situation.  I landed a job that pays well and offers tons of time off.  We could easily reach our financial goals and… hmm.

We thought about opening another photography studio.  This town is so ripe for it.  Lot’s of money everywhere you look.  I’ve scouted the photography studios here and there is definetley room for talents like mine and Heather’s.  With our family’s connections in the community it wouldn’t take long to get things kicked off.  In fact I don’t advertise myself as a photographer for hire and I get asked about it very often.  I turn just about everyone down because of my crazy schedule and I’m not really into it right now.  I don’t know if I want to be a portrait and wedding photographer anymore.  There was a time when I wanted to be an artist.  I studied fine art and, truthfully, not much else.

When we left the DFW area Heather left a job she looooooved.  She thought she would be fine with the move, but I know she wants to go back to Jobing.com.  They treated her like family and the work culture is simply phenomenal.  They made her fee like she was actually part of something.  I know how that feels and I’m saddened when I think about her leaving that job behind.

When we get our finances in order and we’re completely debt free we’ll be able to persue whatever we want.  If we want to move back to the DFW area with no debt and Heatherwill have a job waiting for her then we can do that.  Depending on how Orange Couch Media does I might be able to concentrate on being a fine art photographer instead of a portrait and wedding photographer. 

That’s my real dream anyway.

Wait, wasn’t this post supposed to be about this blog?

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